Hole swapping...

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  1. Splendid_Thoughts

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    yes...it is exactly what it sounds like. I just cannot understand the fetish with arse to mouth or from arse to pussy. I was always told this is really bad due to germ cross infection.

    I can never understand arse to mouth...beyond my limits personally.

    Was I misinformed regarding the hygiene issues?
     
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    Not misinformed. It's a bad idea. It's like drunk driving. You may get home in one piece, but sooner or later you will have an accident. Sooner or later, I dirty pecker will lead to infection. What woman wants that?
     
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    In porn, I think this practice is a case of slick editing. In real life I have always been told it's not a good idea. But, as most know, I am only speaking from a logical perspective. No way Mrs. Hottie is getting involve with that!
     
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    I am one more who is just as perplexed by this.

    Not only is it unwise medically, I just don't see why this would be fun.

    to be fair Im not drawn to anything anal anyway
     
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    I think it's one of those 'in the moment of passion' things. But I don't care how clean you think you are that is not a good idea.
     
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    I agree. It's related to the "where to cum" type of threads. When my wife and I were playing around with anal she didn't always want cum in her asshole. We kept a washcloth handy so she could clean my cock off after she came and I pulled out of her ass.
     
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    I've had several women do a2m multiple times.
    It's no different than any other form of kinky sexual behavior. Some people like it, some people don't.

    I think it's hot as hell.

    There are numerous posts on here about licking someone's asshole, not much different.
     
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    Yeah ,that's no good..even if your ass is very " flushed out " that's no good. I don't find it hot at all
     
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    You make a good point. And I cannot speak from any degree of experience. But I think it is who are with, how well you know them, and how clean they are. But it only takes one mistake and you got a pretty significant health issue.

    Fuck, let's face it. It's sex and sex is messy and dirty. Fun messy and dirty. Be careful and use common sense and I suspect everything will be fine and a fucking fun time.
     
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    Exactly. People get hung up on things they either have never experienced or tried it and didn't like it.
    Look at all the posts on here about swallowing cum, women squirting, wife sharing, bi - sexual men, etc.

    There are all kinds of "normal" and kinky sexual behavior where just one bad time can cause problems.
     
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    Well the point is that, pee, cum and vaginal fluid are all sterile. Feces, and the anus are filled with bacteria. The GI tract can handle the bacteria. A vagina and urinary tract can not. It may be all fun and harmless but the vaginitis and UTI that the female partner gets is avoidable. Introducing the bacteria to the vagina just isn't a good idea.
     
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    As a general rule, I would think that taking something from your ass, and putting it in your mouth(or pussy) is probably not a good idea. But, as you mentioned, there are a lot of other sexual things that are likely just a bad an idea.

    I guess it is like swimming somewhere without a lifeguard. Do it at your own risk. 90% of the time it will probably be alright. And I already established my lack of experience. And for everything that I have posted so far, given the chance to try any of it, I'd do it and take the risk!
     
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    You are no doubt right. I'm waiting for CBR-whatever to chime in. He seems to be the self proclaimed genius on this stuff.
     
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    If it's so sterile then what is the need for wearing a condom for preventing an STD?
    You can get and transmit HPV even while wearing a condom.

    Why do emergency personnel wear gloves when dealing with anyone where not just blood, but any type of bodily fluids or secretions are found?

    Why do cops put spit bags over an unruly suspects head?
     
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    Sterile is the reference to bacteria. You are quite right, that if you are not in an exclusive relationship, with knowledge of your partner's sexual history and health, a condom is essential. The point is that The woman is at risk from her own fecal residue when it is spread from the anus. I think that it's pretty basic that women wipe from front to back. It is simple hygiene. Do you wash your hands after you take a crap? I hope so. It's basic hygiene. It separates us from the beasts. As humans we understand how disease spreads. That's why we treat our sewage.
     
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    ...and yet, as I stated I stated in my first post, many people have no problem licking someone's asshole or barebacking during anal.
    I've even read posts about earning your red wings and intercourse during a woman's monthly cycle.
     
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    Fuck it do what you want. My answer to OP is the same. There are hygiene issues with regard to ass to mouth and ass to pussy. There is a risk of fecal contamination. Fecal coliform contamination is associated with various diseaeses which include ear infections, dysentery, typhoid fever, viral and bacterial gastroenteritis, and hepatitis A. When Fecal Coliform bacteria shows up in water testing, they close the pool or beach. .
     
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    These are very prevalent practices in porn nowadays. The fetish is a simple one: guys want to believe that a woman is willing for whatever reason to do absolutely anything they can think up. It could be that she's sex-crazed with lust for him because he is so virile and has aroused her, it could be because she has issues and needs something deviant and he's just that skilled at kink, or it could be because she is poor/vulnerable and desperate and his money/power allows him free rein.

    They're all about stroking the guys' egos.

    I will admit, however, that the ass-to-mouth phenomenon is probably an outgrowth of the pussy-to-mouth action enjoyed by some women (that's a whole 'nother thread). Those women I've encountered who were amenable or even eager to taste my mouth/fingers/cock after vaginal contact were always quite energetic about it.


    Brother Bother, I agree with your conclusion, but think it's a good idea to offer clarifying light to some of what you said too. But keep in mind, I think you're preaching gospel.

    Semen, vaginal fluid, and urine rarely contain vectors for non-sexual, epidemic diseases. That said, for those considering various forms of 'fluid play' like oral sex and watersports, there are plenty of STIs one can get from these activities, most notably HIV and herpes.
    Originating in the buttular region, e.coli bacteria and their brethren spread waterborne diseases, exacerbate wound infections, and rarely give any fucks about who they kill. I don't know why our colons are generally immune to them, but give them any other environment, and they go crazy.

    A good guideline with your holes and what you put in them is 'keep it clean or you will hurt and that will be sad.'

    As I said above, the main attraction of this activity, from a guy's point of view, is that it is like unto having an all-access pass to Disneyland, with line hopping privileges to boot. It's like getting to skip foreplay, or even introductions, and just go straight to fucking. That's not sexy, it's just boyish.

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    I just know to much microbiology to ever consider mouth to arse!
    Some of the explanations in the above posts are correct up to a point and I won't correct or elaborate further but suffice to say that if is a patently unsafe practice and bacteria are only one type of microorganisms involved but many others also exist and no amount of cleaning will remove them.
     
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    I'm surprised at the conversation this post generated...pleasantly surprised. It seems I'm not the only one who is not at all into anyhthing coming from the "buttular " region and going anywhere near my mouth or pussy (or anywhere else other than a hot shower for that matter).