holding it in lol

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  1. Tech

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    another question, since its my first time, im scared of cumming to quick like 4 mins into sex!

    how can I hold it in or keep doing it until for a long time?

    thanks :)
     
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    Read the book, "The Multi-Orgasmic Man".

    It teaches you techniques to control this, and have multiple orgasams, as the title would suggest. You could try hold it in, but you will need a very strong PC mussel, this is the same mussel you would use to stop mid-pee.
     
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    I guess Tech could practice by masturbating....stop and go method. If you can achive an hour without cumming that would help. Also to strenthen PC mussel,While taking a shower,get a hard -on while standing and hang a wet washcloth over the penis and move your cock up and down useing the PC mussles. No hands.
     
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    lol, I've never heard about the washcloth one before. Some pump iron, others washcloths...lol.

    I should have also metioned that pre-mature ejaculation is not really a physical condition, but more of a mental condition. In time one will actually be able to associate and control body and mind, penis and brain, so that neither one becomes over exited.

    You learn to control your feelings, emotions, nerves, excitement, and you will learn to control the situation. Naturally we all learn from experience (from doing!). So don't worry about it to much, and have fun, and explore.
     
  5. Woot

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    Think about another guy naked, that should slow ya down ;)

    err... no offense GianCarlo :D
     
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    Ouch. :(
     
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    Unless he likes to think about guys too.......LOL
     
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    You said what I wanted to say. hehehe
    BTW....the wet washcloth is just a "cheap" method,instead of all the weights and other gizzmos you can buy. Just as effective.
     
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    heh, penis pullups, lol. reminds me of high school, those fitness tests we had. where you had to do X many pullups and stuff.
     
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    lol, you went to one of those all boys schools then hey? :whip :hump
     
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    lol, no. it was a public one. we had nation wide physical fitness tests every spring and fall. i hated them :( heh, everyone did :D
     
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    What the hell is a PC muscle???
     
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    HAHa PUMP IRON! im GOing 2 tRy That! but A weT CLotH aNd PumP babAaaAyyYyY!!! hEHehe faNx 4 tHat tip! ..tecH. 4 mins isnt sO bAd? Hehe sOME gUYs come After Like secONds its aLl Gewd.. Just yEAh increase Ya PC MuscLe aND yOUR ON ya way. ive been incReasINg My musCLe and daMn It wOrks yOU donT coMe jUst LIKE taT! me aNd my Gf WeNT 4 abOUt 3hrS noT cOMINg ONce! :D
     
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    Is there like a conspirancy or sometine where everyone know's what a PC muscle is and they try to keep me from knowing the definition of a PC muscle????
     
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