Hmmm....I cannot help but notice.....

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  1. SexyScorp

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    ...there are an abundance of women who are either alone or have taken another woman for a lover/partner.....

    Why do you think that is....?

    Empowerment?

    Wisdom?

    Lack of tolerance?

    Maybe Venus and Mars is slowly evolving into Venus and Venus......:)
     
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    I love sex & I love to share! :brow
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    I'm not sure what the cause is, if indeed there is a cause. Up to 40% of women these days consider themselves lesbians or bi-sexual, compared to only 0.5% of men. Perhaps women are simply more comprehensively sexual than men.
     
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    No i think there is more to it than that....

    But I would like to hear what others think...

    I have been conducting a kind of "survey" here in Ireland and am interested to hear what other "cultures" think

    :)
     
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    I love penis
    too much to go venus. :D
     
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    hahaha....me too...

    ....but by the sound of it .....not all of our sisters....

    In Ireland I meet lots of beautiful STRONG women without men....

    hmmm....
     
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    I say what's a woman without a man.
    I think women that have had bad experiences with men tend to turn to another woman.Sometimes women that find it hard to meet men for one reason or anothe may turn to a woman.Maybe the same reasons that drive some men to hookers.
     
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    "whats a woman without a man"

    happier

    lol

    that is what a lot of women I talk to say.....

    and they are amazing women too

    :)
     
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    Haivng lived in both the US and UK I have noticed women in the UK are more open with other women. It is not uncommon for me to be walking to / from the train station and see two women holding hands, enbracing, walking arm - in - arm, and to a lesser extent kissing. I am struggling to understand the difference between the countries. Is it because the UK is less sexually repressed than the US? Maybe it is because in both countries it is socially acceptable for women to display publicly affection and living in the UK I am in a more metropolitan area?

    Getting to the question at hand you ask a good question and to a certain extent I think it does to some extent have to do with the many lesbian figures in the media. Take a look at Rosie O'Donnel, Ellen Degenris (sp?), Newt Gingrich's daughter (I always forget her name), the questions surrounding if Opra is or isn't just to name a few. Another reason is by the time a women reaches the age of 19 they are the sexual majority. Statistically at birth there are 104 male babies for every 100 female babies but by the time the child reaches the age of 19 there are 51% women and 49% men. As people age that percentage of women increases due to men dying off. This means that there is an overabundance of women. Also I think another reason is the increase in medical technology regarding reproduction. Technologically a woman can have a baby without having a man present. So for some women who might have selected a man to be with so that they can have a child; medicine now has given the option of having a child without needing a man to be present. Finally I think much has to do with society and how children are socialized. Girls from an early age are trained to be emotionally responsive to the needs of others and are encouraged to display emotions. Whereas boys are socialized not show feelings, socialzied to compete, and the images of males showing affection for each other is strongly discouraged.
     
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    I was with one of my "single" friends last night. She is a wonderful person...strong, talented, independant, very intelligent and beautiful...

    She has been without a man for a long time...

    When I asked her why she replied "there is no one around who is good enough...I wont compromise and have a man just for the sake of having a partner"....

    Hmmm....

    She then followed with....most of them arent strong enough and arent able to express their feelings or treat a woman well....

    This woman is not in the minority....I have spoken to many who share her view...

    Its that old Venus and Mars thing again isnt it...

    ...and having the courage to speak out and admit its not worth having a partner to avoid being alone...

    I love her honesty...

    She is a tall red headed feisty Irish woman!
     
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    I think maybe women these days realise that they don't need a man to 'complete them'. It is much more acceptable for a woman to be without a man so they don't feel the need to have one just for the sake of having one. And this is a positive thing in my opinion.
     
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    We're so easily replaced with a dildo these days, it's no wonder so many men are turning gay.
     
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    I think lots of females tend to try and get the 100% perfect male ( they dont exsist so for those females seeking them, they will be alone in life unless they find a female . )

    None of us are perfect, neither male or female, some guys are shit in many ways as are some females.

    There are lots of gay men and females, and lots of bisexual in both sex's as well, plus straight

    These head strong females , they are hapy alone, maybe because they enjoy independance and feel a man in their lives would ruin that for them...
    Im one of the few males that admits to being treated badly by females, beaten by them.Does this make me think every female would do this to me , does it make me go for men sexualy, NO it doesnt.
    I would love to have a female that can tame my heart once more, but my heart has to be worked for , i wont just hand it to anyone these days not fuly, as ive been hurt to many times in the past.
     
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    The problem with a dildo, is it doesnt respond to what the female is doing to it, its a one sided sexual love affair.
    A pnis is attached to a male , that can love and also show his appreciation of the female body, and all that it has to offer.

    A dildo is a dildo , an inanimate object, it wont love you, it wont whisper sweet nothings to you,it wont cuddle or kiss or snuggle into you, well it will snuggle into your vagina lmao it cant do anything but be a dildo.
     
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    Is that from staying out is the sun too long, or is 'turning gay' some disease they catch? :lol

    Perhaps these women are simply tired of all the cheating, egotistical, rude, tactless men in their lives. :shrug
     
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    A dildo is usually nothing more than a masturbatory aid, fulfilling the same rule that pornography does for many men.

    A male sex partner cannot be "replaced" with a dildo, any more than a female sex partner can be replaced with your right hand.
     
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    No being gay isnt a desease , its a choice.

    And not all straight guys are cheating, egotistical, rude, tactless men.
     
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    That was my point, Kronnie. :) I guess you didn't pick up on my sarcasm. :ugh
     
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    :p Or left hand , or both hehe
    But well said Puss :)
     
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    Sorry there Heelfetish i hadnt picked up on it hehehe..sorry .