high heels in bed? working or not?

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  1. the_traveler

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    like many men (i guess) i get turned on by looking at women wearing high heels, so much so that almost each time i see one i look down.
    unlike many though i feel guilty becouse it ruins the back.
    seeing one being taken in bed doggy style wearing high heels is an extra turn on, but i hear i doesn't really work, becouse it limits the position you can do, as well making holes in the sheets.
     
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    Every time we've started fucking while she's wearing heels I ended up pulling them off and tossing them. I guess it makes a better visual than a practice. But if she wants to keep them on, I'll buy new sheets if they get ripped.
     
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    +1!!!.....^
     
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    That's fine, but will you buy her a new waterbed?
     
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    i often wear heels on my bed and nothing bad ever happens :p
     
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    I guess there is something odd about me since I don't particularly care about heels one way or the other. If anything they seem incredibly uncomfortable, not only because of the unnatural stance, but the unnatural toe of the shoe as well.:shrug
     
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    Awww..... too bad for you! I'm soo sorry.

    Oh - wait - you meant nothing bad ever happens to the sheets. Never mind....
     
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    High heels don't ruin your back. And they certainly don't HURT to wear. I feel like the women who complain about wearing high heels are the same women who just kind of like the camaraderie of complaining to each other. They are also the women who don't wear heels. I wear heels almost everyday. They force you to walk on your toes which strengthen and tone everything from your calfs to your abs; and they look a hell of a lot better than those Shape-Up clodhoppers.

    I also don't really understand women who won't wear heels for their man. They come in every height, width, toe shape, color, different coverage, support, make, and model. You CAN find something that will drive your man nuts and that you can easily tolerate (especially if you're on your back). And it's a hell of a lot easier than any other fetish or fantasy. If I was your standard woman, I'd rather throw on a pair of 12 dollar heels than dye my hair or buy a costume that I didn't feel comfortable in. (I do;))
     
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    I prefer short and sexy socks instead .. high heels make the girl looks more like a pornstar than an amateur .. and I am much more excited by the amatuer stuff
     
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    Not to derail things but do you have any evidence of this? I'd be inclined to agree with the calves part if there were no supports under the heels. But since supports are part of the deal, you're merely walking on your toes on platforms which if anything would work your calves less since the extension/contraction of the calf is reduced by the raised heel of the shoe, not by actively holding the body up on its toes. I do seem to recall shoes that were meant to strengthen the calf by elevating the heel some without a support under it, but I cannot find them on the Internet. I did find some silly looking $3600 shoes which were basically high heels without the spike though, for what that might be worth. As for the abs thing, I can't really say since I've never tried wearing high heels or anything, so I'm not certain of there would be any benefit or not. (I do know I don't notice any extra working of my abs when I walk around on my toes, for what that is worth).
     
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    High heels in bed = big turn on for him. I like to make him lick them too ;)
     
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    You can walk in high heels all kinds of different ways, but if you walk in them with proper posture you're sure to see benefit from it. Yes you put your weight on your heels when you're standing, but when you're walking (this is kind of hard to explain) you kind of have to roll your foot to a certain degree forward without putting your heel down (the shoes don't let you). So you are constantly flexing your calves; which is the point of heels (to make your legs and butt look good while promoting proper posture). They aren't to just look sexy or make you taller. Yes, just walking on your toes with no support will work your calves, but put on a pair of heels and walk around for an hour and I'll be very surprised if you wouldn't feel it in your legs.

    As for your abs, the heels put you a bit off balance. They force you to position your weight directly over the shoe (no rolling ankles, or shifting weight to the sides of your feet). This balancing act is done, not though your feet or legs, but through your body's core. The more you move, the more you have to work to keep yourself balanced; and the easiest way to do that is to tighten your core and keep your posture, thereby keeping your weight centered above your supports. Heels were invented forever ago with all of this in mind. They were meant to make the BODY look sexy. Somewhere along the way, we decided the shoes themselves were sexy too.
     
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    We will usually have my wife wear high heels for sex somewhere other than the bed - e.g. doggystyle with her bent over a table or other piece of furniture. In bed she will wear them if I want her to, but she gets nervous about accidentally injuring me with them.
     
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    I have never really been into heels but each to their own.
     
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    Not in a water bed LOL
     
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    Oh big time WORKING!!!
     
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    As a longtime appreciator of pretty feet (which are rare) I hate what high heels do to women. Hammer toes, misshapen toes, ankle and knee problems. It is a lousy price to pay for the pain. I would rather have you looking your best for many decades than see you strutting in high heels for a few years!
     
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    don't get me wrong I love to wear high heels and love to see other women in them, very sexy IMO
    but in bed I prefer just naked bodies and nothing else
     
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    Oh they definitely come off as soon as it's time for her sexy feet to go into my mouth;):D
     
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