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  1. Darkesheart

    Darkesheart New Member

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    Hi to those that I know that are still here. And hello to others that I don't know. Sorry I've been gone so long. Things got pretty screwed up for me. And still kinda are. But they are slowly starting to get better. How is everyone? I hope to be around more often. And maybe I will post some more of my new poems that I have written lately.
     
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    Hello!!!
     
  3. heelfetish

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    It's great to have you back. Sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Hopefully we can help you through it, if noting else. *hugs*
     
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    Welcome back, hon. We know your life is pretty complicated, but just know that you always have friends here.

    :grouphug
     
  5. AnonymousOne

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    Welcome back! Though I jetted right after you got here ... and now I'm back as well!

    I hope things keep getting better!
     
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    Hiya, hunsy!
     
  7. Bella

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    Welcome back sweetie!!
    I've missed you!!
    Sorry things aren't good with you,
    but glad they are getting better!
    It must be something in the water these days!!
    Haven't had the best of times myself lately!
    I wish you all the best & hope to see you more often!!
    Hugz,
    ~Bella
     
  8. Darkesheart

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    Well, veyr few know that I was having problems in my marriage. My divorce was finalized July 16. And an asshole judge gave custody to my ex husband. Then told me that I have to pay child support (which I don't mind.. never would have minded that). But then he went on to say that if I want to have any type of contact with her that I have to apply to the courts here in PA and in AR. And on top of it my ex is remarried. And she is causing hell in my life.

    Needless to say I have been going through bouts of depression. And have had periods where I was pretty suicidal. But I think I am over the worst of it.
     
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    Oh and *HUGE HUGS* to everyone.

    Have missed ya all
     
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    Welcome back sweetie! Glad you came through the worst and hope for the best going forward!!!!
     
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    Wow...tough times. Hang in there.

    BD
     
  12. Bella

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    Sweetie, You are through the worst!!
    It can only get better for you now!!!
    I can relate lately though!!
    Let me know if you wanna talk or need a shoulder!!
    Hugz,

    ~Bella
     
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    I'm sorry to hear that. :( Hopefully you can get these issues sorted out. May I ask why the judge decided on that?
     
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    Partly because I just moved here to PA. I am staying with friends now. But when he made that decision I was actually homeless. My mother-in-law (well ex mother-in-law) had kicked me out, and didn't care that I hadn't had anywhere to go. Whereas he had a place for her and a "babysitter" that became his new wife less than a week after our divorce was finalized.


    But enough of that heh. I wou;d have replied before this. But I had a friends wedding that I went to this past weekend. And I enjoyed myself tremendously. Got completely wasted Friday night. And in doing so, helped the group of friends I was with get the bride, the groom, and the person who married them all so drunk they had hangovers during the ceremony. *evil grin*
     
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    aww hun - hope things get better for you
     
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    At least I am over the worst of my depression. And I have a new project to keep me busy. And no... I am not saying what it is LOL. Well, a couple of them actually. One is for me, so can wait until I get to it. And the other is for a friend.
     
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    You are most awesome girl! Like Bella said, you are through the worst!

    ((HUGS))