I've been observing this site and decided to join and introduce myself. I'm JD (29 years old, straight, male), live in California and have been married for close to 2 years (with the same partner for over 8 years). We were eachother's "firsts," and while that is cutely romantic, it does leave the "what if" of sexual adventure in uncharted territory. I have a fairly strong libido, while my wife is the type that can be spurred into more libido, but more often could sail along happily for eons without any sexual thought or impulse (being the somewhat detached, aloof type). I don't come here out of dissatisfaction but out of a desire to discuss all things relationships, sex, love & more in a community of people of all statuses. Not many people I know seem comfortable discussing sex in any intimate manner, but I quite enjoy it. I think this is a good place to start. Cheers everyone.