I mean that literally. So, "Hi" to everyone here. I'm Jaybee, I'm a brit, 36 y.o, hetero male, and if you ask me, everyone ought to express himself, not repress himself. Yes, I'm quoting from the great Madonna who went 10 years before me, but why not echo the greats? My philosophy is to accept yourself for whatever you are - because doing so is the SEXIEST thing you'll ever do. Find what pushes your buttons, and when you think you've finished, find some more buttons. Repeat as long as you get an effect. We're nothing but animals, and some of us varmints like leather, others like being tied up. I like doing it with a varmint who is even stronger than I am, but a weight-trainer myself, that's my challenge; to find she who is even stronger than I. But my heart is in the chase, so I execute a real, true chase. So be true to yourself. Jack off in front of a mirror; or in front of a consenting stranger, or in complete darkness. But find out what you are. Never be ashamed of who and what you are...most of all, to yourself. Jaybee.