Hey friends, how are all of ya? As some of you know, I've been having some sexual issues with my girl. There are too many things to mention that I love about her. But these sexual issues have really been driving me up the wall. I have a tremendous sex drive. No big surprise there, seems most men do. But it's become a source of aggravation for her. You know, me dropping hints, raising my eyebrows all the time, morning wood stabbing her in the butt cheeks, etc.....lol. Anyhow....I have been trying to discuss this with her for a while now, but I'm cautious because I know that she doesn't care to talk about it as much as I do. Hell.....I became an active member of a SEX FORUM!!!...hehehe. That's how much I love to talk about sex. What we do now: We have sex maybe twice a week if I'm lucky. I find that I have to masturbate a lot just to keep from pressuring her so much. I'm really trying to be sensitive to her needs and desires or lack thereof, while at the same time trying to get her out of this slump. We masturbate together at other times. But I can tell, that too, is lacking for her. Even with her Hitachi. Oh she likes her wand, don't get me wrong, but sometimes even that doesn't get her off. What we don't do: Our sexual exploration is very limited by what she's willing to try. She says no role playing, she just can't get into it. She says she doesn't want another man in bed, I asked.....more than once. No way in hell will she let another girl in bed with herself or me....so that's out. We used to do anal, but now she says I'm just too big for her to get pleasure from that. No, I'm not some freak of nature, but a bit bigger than average. I really take pride in the quality of the oral that I give her. She's cried a few times when she orgasms from nothing but oral. I was really shocked at first because I thought crying HAD to be bad, right? Well she explained it as it being so overwhelming during orgasm that her body just responds to it by crying.......I dunno. I assume that these crying spasms are due to a G-Spot orgasms as opposed to a clitoral orgasm which she also has. But back to the point..... I'm really trying to pull her out of her slump. We've been together for 8 yrs now and we've both had our sexual slumps. So in that respect, this is nothing new for us. But the previous slumps were on my end and usually stress-related. Even then, a blowjob has a way of bringing a man right out of a slump...lol. Anytime I was lucky enough to get one of those, I was ready to pounce! Well, with her, it's not that simple. There is NO one thing that I can do to get her excited about sex. I've tried for months now. So what the hell am I asking? I'm asking for ideas about little things that I can bring up to her, in casual conversation, that she may or may not like to try. For instance, today she said "maybe we could try one of those adult board games?" My response of course was "absolutely! I'll go get one tomorrow and we can try it whenever your ready." I'm fishing for ideas like that---the boardgame. Not really physical things like what I can do with her body. More like adult-themed, couple-oriented, fun things. Because I think a lot of her issue is that sex has became dull for her. I can't stand that idea (lol). It makes me feel like I'm not doing my job as her man. Like I'm not keeping things interesting for her. I have always striven to be the best of everything for her---the best lover, the most trusted person in her life, her best friend, everything that I do I want to be the best that anyone has ever done for her. It's not really an alpha-male type of thing with me, it's just that I love her so much that I always strive to make things better. Enough of my babble.... 1. We're getting a board game for couples. What else should we try? 2.? 3.? 4.?