[Ask a Guy] Hey, Fellas! (Boobs?!)

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  1. 10_3XL

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    So, reading over the Boobs Theory thread got me to thinking and wondering and looking and drooling and so on about breasts.

    My more specific inquiries, however, are:

    (1) What is the appeal/fascination with large, gravity-defying, and obviously "modified" breasts? They are (generally, but not always) a pretty big turn-off for me. They kinda scream of insecurity...

    (2) Why does it seem that both men and women equate Big Breasts with Great/Sexy Breasts? I've seen plenty of small/virtually nonexistent breasts that I found quite sexy and appealing, whereas I've encountered "big ole titties" that had me curling my lip up in distaste. (Speaking out of my personal experience this tends to happen more frequently with... ah... "heavy" women and their partners.)

    Enlighten me, everyone?
     
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    Modified breasts almost make me laugh, who do they think they are fooling?
    Why any 'man' can find them attractive, even pay for them to be done, baffles me - where is the attraction of two bags of silicone?
    If they are so attractive & exciting then just buy the bags & forget the up-keep of the woman.
    The only time implants are acceptable to me are for 'true' medical reason's, such as after a mastectomy.

    Big breasts are not necessarily sexy at all, it all depends on their 'owner's' overall sexiness; even their own happiness with them.
    I have had one very large breasted partner - 44EE - and although she was a very sexy woman her breasts detracted from her total enjoyment of sex; many positions were uncomfortable for her, in some they just got in the way. She did not get a lot of sensation from them being 'handled' so wasn't really interest in 'breast play'. So they detracted from my (total) sexual enjoyment. They were even a 'nuisance' while just sleeping. She was always talking of breast reduction surgery.
    I also have had a partner who could be described as 'tit-less' but she was in herself sexually confident, oozed sexuality and was therefore sexually exciting in her totality. She also had, as perhaps natures 'compensation' very large sensitive nipples (could orgasm from nipple play alone). I have always found large nipples more exciting than the breasts they are on.

    Question: Are the nipples most men's ultimate 'destination', rather than the breasts themselves?
     
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    My favorite have always been natural breast, most women I've met with implants are as fake as they're breast, seem very shallow and insecure. It's a shame a man felt they're not beautiful enough the way they were.

    I love breast large or small, they are just a feature on a woman and are not what makes a woman attractive.
     
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    natural breast for me please :D
     
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    Natural for me as well.
    But I have seen women with implants that look great as well.
     
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    Good question but as in most travels, the adventure of the trip is as exciting as the destination. Meaning to me that the breast and the nipples are one wonderful package. That being said, the first time I ever saw my SO’s nipples they were were darker than any other woman I had even been with…instant attraction/turn-on for me, and still are I may add.

    Oh and to answer the questions, just depends on the woman and how she carries herself. Confidence is key for my attraction to a Lady. I do enjoy Breast of all size and natural over fake usually in real life. Porn may be different but then again that is not interaction.
     
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    Small and natural over big and fake any day.

    xx
     
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    My motto: quality over quantity.

    Firm and perky are great, 34B seems to be where I lean most :)
     
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    I tried fake boobs and didn't enjoy. Natural is best forso far.
    I have tried small and big, loved them all except extrememely big.
     
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    Ok so here is the way I see it about fake boobs. If they are hanging upside down from a brass pole than fake titts are really cool...If I am in bed with a woman then its more about her and most Lady's are natural...
     
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    Whatever boobs as long as the owner is happy then so am I :)
     
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    I think all would prefer natural over silicone but I agree to
    but must add to it that if a lady is "greatly" unhappy with the looks certain modifications could be acceptable for me too. But a "gravity-defying" unmodified hard pair is truly appealing/fascinating..

    I don't find very large breasts equate to being sexy but being too tiny is not my preference either.
    I know this is not a picture post thread but here's a pic of +40 yo all natural ones by my side;)
     

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    Yes !!!!!!!!!
    And I just love her areola & nipples, beautiful !!!
     
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    magificant, and a beutiful smile....
     
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    (1) No idea. I always preferred natural breasts even as a teen, and even more so after actually touching some real boobs.

    (2) I agree that small breasts can be attractive, but big ones are very nice to play with. Big breasts also have the added appeal of accentuating womanly shapes even through thick clothes. :)
     
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    Big boobs???o_O:eek::p
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    I agree. I prefer natural but...


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    Natural ones for me.
     
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    I know it's not ask a girl, but the more I get to know my husband, I think for him boobs are way more about the nipples than anything else.

    That pic a couple posts above reminds me how fun that would be, and how I've wanted to do that for years. I would totally do body paint in public if my relatives and staff were not around. There is actually a festival coming up this summer not too far from here where I could probably get away with it. Hmmmmm.....
     
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    i think you should do a test run so to speak and let us be your Ginny pigs lol ;)
     
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