I have been in a committed, monogamous relationship for nearly 4 months with a wonderful man. I am more sexual than he is & I love to be restrained a little during sex. By this I mean that I love for my man to put my hands above my head & hold me down while we are in the missionary position. I also love to be tied up. My dilemma is the fact that my man seems to be very vanilla & kind of cringes with the slightest mention of this type of behavior. I'm not sure if he is being that way because he doesn't want me to think that he likes it or what. I am trying to figure out the best way to introduce my man to my interests. What should I do? How should I approach the subject with him? Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated!!