Her "ON" button.

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  1. pbs

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    Anyone who has had a dog or cat as a pet must know that there is a spot near the base of the tail on their backs that can drive them crazy with pleasure. As it turns out, there's at least one woman on earth, my wife, who has the same spot.

    Once we get the warming up and getting comfy stuff settled in bed, I usually pull her over to straddle half on top and half off of me, and start lightly scratching her back, and as I head for that spot down her spine, I can feel her tense up, tighten with her legs, and sometimes push her pubic bone into my leg. I can even tease her by not getting there too quickly, but when I do, it's like flipping a switch on, and from then on, she's mine.

    Has anyone else explored this area of their partners?
     
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    pbs, I have heard that if you massage a woman just above her butt (just where there might be dimples in her low back) while giving her oral cunnilingus it increases her orgasm. I can't remember where I read it though and had forgotten all about it..
     
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    Hmmm! That will be interesting to try. I'll report back tomorrow.
     
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    I would tickle my ex in that exact spot while she was basically sitting reverse cowgirl but hovering so her ass was just a little above my body. She would literally start to quiver and drip on me because she got so wet from it. Brought her very very near orgasm just by doing that alone. She's the only one I've can across that was so sensitive in that spot. She was also super multi- orgasmic. Maybe a correlation between the two??
     
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    why bother? A finger in her butt will perfectly do the job :eyes
     
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    I guess going right for the goodies is one way to do it, but I like to take my time and make sure that "getting there" fully enjoyed first. Have you ever had "slow sex?" By slow, I'm suggesting an hour or 2 before you have your first orgasm.
     
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    Yes I did.
     
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    Also a nice place to play with when doing it doggy style and you need to slow it down a little.
     
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    So you don't like to be teased?
     
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    yep :eyes
     
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    Yep you do like to be, or yep you don't?
     
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    Yep I do like :)
     
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    Now what is your point?
     
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    The bottom of my spine area and the neck/ base of head will do it for me.
     
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    High up on the inside of my thighs and my nipples are my hot spots.
     
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    No particular point, just trying to get you to write more.
     
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    My tailbone is one of the spots on my body that he's been able to make me orgasm from, although it's been a while. :eyes
     
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    Ok we tried this last night. I know that the bottom of my spine helps get me going, but never really concentrated on the feeling. For me, there are two spots. Basically on either side of my tattoo. I was laying on my stomach while he was massaging my back. I was very relaxed as well. Whenever those spots, particularly right side, where massaged...it was intense and odd at same time. Kinda hard to describe exactly, but it was almost like it was rubbing slightly on my g-spot. Almost teasing it. It did indeed make me VERY wet and if we would have kept going...possibly even gush.
    I will most def. Concentrate more when he rubs those spots! :)
     
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    Thanks for this input hotmamma. In the past I've simply gone directly to that "spot," and done very little exploring around it. Because we practice slow sex exclusively, I think maybe I'll spend a lot more time getting to know that area next play day tomorrow.
     
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    Sure thing hun! ;)
    I'm glad we explored it!
     
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