Well, my girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable touching herself due to the fact that her ex and her best friend use to fuck around with her on seperate occasions and she never went anything passed a peck on the lips with either of them. Everything was completely forced, one of them use to shove her hands in her pants and tell her to touch herself if she wouldn't touch him and even at one point shoved his finger inside of her without her consent. At that time I wasn't with her and I beat the shit out of him and went to jail for six months, nice huh? I am completely fine with going at her pace, but she can't get anywhere near herself unless shes guiding me to what she likes (i.e. making me finger her where she will grip my hand and guide my hand to what she wants) and if that little discription above isn't allowed please remove it and keep this part it is only to let you guys know where i'm coming from. Don't get me wrong ladys, I love my girlfriend to death and will never force anything on her and I never have. So, help me to break her out of her cocoon.