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    impulse New Member

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    Ok im 23 and think i have a probelm.. Well kinda , i dont really know if i have a probelm or not but think i do...

    Semms my mind still has best sex drive but my dick acts like he doesnt... I dunno how to explain like when i masterbate i cant get fully hard anymore, Been that way awhile like stuff doesnt turn me on as much as it uset too... Can watch porn and stuff and cant get hard.. Seems i can never get fully hard, once in blue moon and i know alot people say they think its is mental but i dont think it is on me... Never had a girl complain with the sex and always say good things about me and my dick... I uset to put the dick to the ladies and be rock hard for hours now seems like i cant get rock hard for nothing... Seems to me its getting worse.. i need toknow howif i have probelms or not, i just wish it was like the old days...

    also i do play with myself alot like 5+ times a day been that way forever, im the type that gets off and feels the need to goagain and again...
     
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    Well i think might be alittle from stress and over working it with masterbating too much... I just got off phone with one my ex's and i got hard being on phone with her... So maybe i dont have much as a probelm as i think.. Thinking i just over work it and i know im getting older so my dick is going to slow down compared to the old teenage days.. lol
     
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    mmmh... my only experience is with masturbation. but I already had a similar problem. my solution: STOP for, at least, 3 days. no masturbating, no sex. you will notice that your desire will grow, as you'll start to think about the sex/playing you aren't doing. try it out. if you can't make the 3 days, maybe you really have a psychic disorder and you should see a specialist. sex may become an addiction: you start to do it as a 'necessity' of your body (like peeing...) and you can't feel the same pleasure you did before.

    good luck
     
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    ok im going to start today, See if i can go for 3 days... Damn it already seems tuff lol... I think my probelm is when i get so bored i wanna play with my dick... So anyways being i just woke up and havent did it yet im going to start today...
     
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    I don't think most guys of any age can masturbate 5+ / day and still perform with a woman. Back off on masturbating and see if that improves. If it doesn't improve, ask your doctor.
     
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    If you do any kind of drugs (especially pot) it can have an adverse effect on your ability to get and stay erect.
     
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    I dont do any drugs,and never touched any... Never even tryied pot..
     
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    ill half to say the pot thing is an in general statement. cuz i smoke grass all the time and i dont have that problem and im fifty years old . and with the proper stimulation im a frickin diamond cutter yea. cp
     
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    Well im 23 and wondering wtf is going wrong with me?? Uset to be so great and now seems like its going downhill...
     
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    maybe you might want to go get checked by a doc. you might be dealing with something thats not out front and plain to see.cp
     
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    Yeah i mean ive been with girls they say i dont have a probelm but i dont feel the same..

    Not sure if its a age thing or what, Im still wondering if i really have a probelm or not...

    I know i dont get fully erect very often, i mean i get hard enough to fuck but when i masterbate seems like its want to go down fast if im not messing with it...

    Last time i had sex was jan and she loved it and said i was the best she had (not sure if you can trust girls but i know she liked it lol) I mean with all the girls ive been with they have liked it .. And this is befor and after i thought i had a probelm..

    Its night time here and ive went all day with makjing him hard or masterbating, Im working on 3 days which isnt easy for a guy who plays with himself as much as i do...

    I just feel like it wants to die down faster then it uset to and not want to get fully erect like the old days... But it does get hard enough to fuck girls when i need to .... i have yet to be with a girl and couldnt get it hard enough to do anything (knock on wood) So im still kinda ifey on the whole probelm thing or if everyone goes thru this because there uset to there teenage sex drive and then it starts to slow down??