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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by tpa21, Dec 9, 2003.

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  1. tpa21

    tpa21 New Member

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    i need some help...I'm 21 yrs old and in great shape. I've been dating this girl for 3 months now and when we go to have sex i can't get hard. I get really horny and nervous and kinda hard but not hard enough for a condom or to engage in sex, is there anything i can take or any tips. plz help
     
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    jasmine17 New Member

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    hmm...tpa, that must be really frustrating. have you been to a doctor? that might be a good idea to try to isolate whether or not the difficulty you're having is physical or psychological?

    I don't know how common a problem this is for a man of your age. Any men with a perspective?

    hoping somebody can provide more help,

    jasmine
     
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    ViviWannabe New Member

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    First, calm down. Getting nervous can and will scare away an erection. If that doesn't work, try getting her to suck it, or try to engage anyway. Sometimes being near that area helps. Maybe have her talk dirty to you. Just find out what turns you on and go with it.
     
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