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    Hi...
    I have a problem..
    i have one granny but not real .she is may be 50 or 45 years old and she is not married.. she is virgin...
    and nowadays she is in big trouble.. and i wanted to help her ..
    To be frank by making love.. :)
    but i don't know how to start .. can any buddy help..
     
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    Wow, a 50 yo virgin is probably going to be pretty tight, and reluctant. Once you get her to agree to make love with you, you might try something I once did with a virgin, but it takes some effort on your part. I found that I could just push my tip against her vagina, but it couldn't enter because she was way too tight, so I just lightly pushed and moved until I was ready to cum, then pulled away to cum on her tummy. While I was still hard I put my penis back against her vagina, and as it got softer and smaller it was able to slide in without any tearing or pain. Once inside, I started to get hard again, and enlarged inside her, stretching her open from inside - no pain and no blood. I think this must be the perfect way to introduce a virgin to penetration, but it takes a very caring partner to pull it off.

    If you do manage to de-flower this gal, you may find that she becomes very attached to you. Having waited so long, she will be giving you something sacred to her. Do her a favor and don't take it lightly.
     
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    Wait, she's your grandma?
    Or just an older woman that you know?
     
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    ??? the same exact question came to my mind...
     
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    If she is my grandma then how she could be virgin...she is just a old woman which i know ,
    And i m asking for help to start over her because i m also virgin..
     
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    This is true..sorry about that.
     
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    i would love to start with a older woman but its not possible here... but
    can anybody help ???? hey RideNaked2 any suggestions????
    what would you liked if you were 50 and virgin????
     
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    hmmm, I think it would have to be very slow. Is this person interested in taking this step with you? Have you talked to her about this? That would be my first thought...then let nature take it course but most of all.....SLOWLY.
     
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    no we have not talked about this before , i seldom meet her... today i have taken her contact number.... remember she is INDIAN , what suggestion would you give when you know she is INDIAN??
     
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    I'm sorry, I don't have a suggestion...maybe some of the other members will have better suggestions to offer.
     
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    Adoption= no sex but having a child.

    Think out of the box people. ;)
     
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    I didn't read below but if you are not related and both desire going there,
    sex happens pretty much the same, we all have our first times, just at a different age.
    Start with kissing and touching, caressing, exploring each other, masturbation. Don't rush it. Try oral, giving as well as receiving if both of you are receptive to it.
    First time intercourse will hurt her, no other way but pain, it's normal.
    Do like I did: press the head at the entrance and push it in, once she is ready push in a little deeper, repeat until you are all in, then start thrusting slowly for the few times you have intercourse.
    Don't expect fireworks her first times, AND don't expect to last a long time either. It's a learning curve and soon enough things are easier, more fun.
    Have lubricant ready too.