My SO wants to know why i like going down on her. she likes it but she is uncomfortable with her body, always covering what ever i can see. she asks why i like doing it and i say "it makes you feel good, i love doing it, i get off making you get off." but it still takes an act of god to get her to let me do it. then i ask her why she likes doing things to me and she gives me the same reasons i give her. She has a great body, she looks Hawaiian, but she has really cute freckles. long brown hair. perfect. i just dont get it. anything you can do to help my situation would be appreciated. what i should say, do, wear, buy, skywrite... anything.