Didn't really know what to call the topic but as it states I do need help. I've had sex once before about 3 years ago (when I lost my V) and it wasnt that great, not that it bothers me any way. And the last month I met a reasonable/decent lady compared to what exist at these times. Any way, I do love her, she loves me and we had sex once. It was not the full session really but its fine. She doesnt like to take off her clothes much, which does hurt a lil but you know, gotta respect her for whatever reason it may well be. I've told her I love every part of her and she says that it doesnt bother her how she looks (and thats good). Now, she only got naked with me once when we had that session. After that we didn't really have much of a session as we've been busy and what not. She does give me bj's without me asking for one (and hey, im not the type of person who is a sex-o-holic like most people! I know how to control myself and its not always about sex!) and thats sweet of her. Thing is, I want to go and have the full session. For the first time, I actually licked a pussy! lol. Question is, how can I go with the full session? I have a couple of problems: 1) I pretty much want to cum after about 10 minutes of doggying her. How can I control that? 2) She doesnt want to take off her clothes much, how can I make her feel more comfortable, even though she says shes fine with her body? (no, shes not fat at all!) to be honest, ive never "played" with myself or went to those naughty sites or watched naughty TV ever since i started seeing her. It's a good thing too!