Been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now, we've been having sex and I havent uhm..managed to get her to "G spot orgasm" yet.. Also, she said she thinks it might be because she hasn't ever had an orgasm caused by anyone else before.. I've tried oral, fingers over clit etc and still failed to achieve orgasm, she tried herself in my presence but it took "longer than usual".. But anyway, to get an orgasm for a girl, is it more or less the same as what it is with lads to get an orgasm? Is it that you need to be going full on hard, fast to get there.. Or would keeping it fairly slow but prolonging the sex for a while which would help achieve orgasm? Thanks.