Help with Condom

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  1. goose

    goose New Member

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    I seriously need help with condom.

    I started using condom recently with my wife but the problem is I dont cum and she had 3 to 4 orgasms everytime we had sex! I'm worked like a dog but i dont get my treats.

    Anyone knows the reason or has a similar problem with condom?


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    Are you using ones with a desensitizer,
    that could kill your feelings.
     
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    Hi, I'm using durex - FETHERLITE
     
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    How do they fit? I may be stating the obvious, but you don't want to cut off the circulation.
     
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    Yes durex are great as stated above. They are nice and thin to get the most pleasure during sex. They fit nicely so you really do get a lot of feeling.
     
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    your penis might not be as sensitivE?
     
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    I have the same problem no matter what condom I use. With my wife, we used birth control pills, later after my two children were growing I had a vasectomy. I think some men need the extra stimulation of natural sex more than others, or men who have mostly had natural sex in the past will have trouble when they swap over to condoms.

    In Australia, they are nicknamed 'raincoats', because sex with a condom is like showering in a raincoat. With casual sex, they are necessary (and sometimes life saving), but with monogamous relationships it may be better exploring other forms of birth control.
     
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    Never had a problem with "not getting there" with a condom. Quite a few guys apparently do. Try masturbating with one to get used to the feeling.
     
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    Reaching orgasm is somewhat a psychological thing. Maybe you feel less sensitive with it. You are obviously hung on this problem. I think you should and focus more on the pleasure. Fantasize more. Take your mind away from seeing this as a problem. You should start getting your treats.

    If all these don't work, consider going off condom. No need exhausting yourself in a pleasurable activity.
     
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