Help with BJ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Nettle, Jun 16, 2007.

  1. Nettle

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    If the woman has a very small mouth and the guy has a thick cock, how can she give a really good blow job when she can only just get the head of his cock in her mouth?

    Any tips?
     
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    An ex and I had that problem to an extreme, but it's almost always been a problem since I'm pretty thick. The only solution is to use your hand(s) as an extension of your mouth. Keep it slippery wet and make long strokes.
     
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    Thanks. :)
     
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    guess hes lucky you can at least get that much in your mouth ;)
     
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    Nettle the females i have been with have had this same exact problem, i never knew a way around it, so in the end after a few lameish attempts from them it wasnt ever done ....so its something i have done withoiut for 99% of my sexual life.
     
  6. Nettle

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    Kronnie, you need to find a woman with a mouth like Mick Jagger, lol.

    ((HUGS)) I hope one day you experience this.
     
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    Try using yours hands around his cock while you suck the head then. And some men really seem to enjoy being fondled with the other hand. Change up the routine to see what really turns him on. I have found that pace is a really big factor in making a guy cum. So try to keep up your pace when you think he might be close.
    Sorry if it's not terribly helpful. :)
     
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    Hahaha on the Mick Jagger line :p rofl

    But huggles back at you hun..i hope one day i do find a female thats willing and able...i know she will never have to worry about having anything done to her that she desires from me ..
     
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    Well concidering the tip is the most sensetive part of the penis, pretty much anthing you do with it will feel great to him. Just go with your instincts, suck, lick, kiss, ect.
     
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    Thanks for the advice guys :)
     
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    Lick it up and down, get whatever u can in your mouth... Ger it nice and wet and use ur hand. As you stroke it suck it. I love to be licked almost more then sucked.
     
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    Hi Nettle, What you have going for you is your willingness to pleasure your man. You can give him a nice tongue bath without taking his cock all the way in. Be gentle and use alot of saliva, suck and lick his pee hole, lick around the outside of the head, it is the most sensitive part of a mans member, moan alot because he will be moaning louder than you! He will really enjoy your hot mouth.
     
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    Using the hands as an extension and lots of licking are great, in my experience, a blowjob can practically consist of a hand job but with a mouth at the end of it, and it still feels great. If you're ok with swallowing then that makes it all the better, would help it to be more like head and less like a hand job too.
     
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    I want to do it well, because he has never had a proper blow job in his life.

    He said his ex-wife had just taken the head in her mouth once or twice, and another ex-partner had just done a lot of licking... so I guess they had a problem with his size too.

    I don't mind swallowing, but usually when the man cums, his cock is at the back of my mouth so I don't really taste anything. I am not keen on the texture of cum, so my other concern is if I can't get him far in my mouth, I'm gonna have a mouth full of cum and I don't want to offend him if he doesn't taste good...lol.

    Maybe I need to practise on a cucumber or something, lol.
     
  15. marth

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    Get him to eat Pineapple - makes it taste better apparently :)
     
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    In case anyone is interested... an update.

    I managed it fine this time :) I found the wetter he was the easier it got.

    He was thrilled. (so was I)
     
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    Well as many people said use one hand as an extension, but there is a part on a guy that is extremely sensitive and if you put a little pressure on it (maybe even a lot depending on your guys preference) the part is between his balls and his ass hole. but dont keep the pressure in one spot! move it around even pressing right between his balls works. My guy loves it!
     
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    licking from the head down the the scrotum on the bottom about does the trick for me :)
     
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    also, just sucking the head while giving a handjob feels great too.