I've been dating my boyfriend for two months and he is perfect for me. I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. We are both virgins (he is 25 and I am 22). We decided to take it slowly at first and explore each others bodies and learn what each other likes. So far I've given him three blowjobs, for pretty long periods of time, starting at 30 min, 45, and then the last one was an hour. And yet he couldn't orgasm from any of them. The first time we were both a little courageous from the alcohol and contributed that to why he couldn't come (because I couldn't either). The second and third time we were both sober. He claims it feels really good (although I'm sure my technique could improve), but he isn't able to come. At first, it was due to nerves, but now he is freaking himself out thinking he has a medical problem or something. How do I get him to calm down and blow his mind enough to have an orgasm? What should I do to help him?