help...trouble keeping it up

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  1. poerco1

    poerco1 New Member

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    I'm 17 years old..and everytime i go to have sex with someone other than the person i lost my virginity to i have trouble getting a erection, and when i do, i have trouble keeping it up..i don't know why this happens to me..its so embarrassing when i just go limp during sex or oral sex, but wen i have sex with the girl i lost my virginity to, i can stay hard for hours at a time..i've have sex with 8 people and all of them besides my first i had trouble keeping an erection, has anyone ever experienced this before? i need some help i'd like to overcome this..because i know i don't have trouble keeping a boner or getting one because when i go to masterbate or have sex with the person who took my virginity thers no trouble..please help? thanks..
     
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    bighiker2003 Banned

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  3. jaguar

    jaguar New Member

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    We might not be able to reply, don't you have to be 18 to post on this forum.
    Your problem is you can't get the 1st girl out of your mind, when you do and can move on, it will get better.
     
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    Yeah you need to be 18yrs old read the rules. But your still thinking of her... like Jag said above get over her and you should be fine.
     
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    Maybe you still care/ love her......?

    It is not easy to let go of someone you were
    very attached to

    And Hiker we aint talking about a football
    match....

    but someone's finer feelings....

    a little sensitivity hey?

    poerco....times heals sweetie...
    you will be okay

    promise

    it took me ages to get over
    my first love.....and now?

    can hardly remember him :)

    ((((hugs))))
     
  6. Kronnie

    Kronnie Banned

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    When you turn 18, feel free to come back here and visit , and take the advice given that some have offered you already...

    Emotions can make sex a dificult thing at times. especaily when your very young, because teenagers tend to have thousands of thoughts and emotions triggering all over inside their minds..
    In time things should setle down for you.
    Peace and good luck :)
     
  7. burton

    burton New Member

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    sounds like its all in your head