I'm been in a relationship for over a year now and I love my girlfriend intensily. I couldn't dream of being without her and she is really part of me. In fact, I'm considering proposing, but that's another story. So the problem is this. I love sex. I really do, however my girlfriend, although she's great in bed, doesn't like to do a lot of the things I do plus she doesn't want to experiment too much. For example, I would like to try anal, but she's not happy with that idea at all. Another thing that turns me on is being able to cum on the face or in the mouth. I don't think there is anything wrong with that, however that is totally out of the question for her. I've tried so hard with the gently gently approach by buying books, hinting every once in a while or just talking about it but it's totally off limits to her. So what do I do?! I've considered maybe just having sex again with an old friend of mine. Just so I can satisfy those needs. She's still single and we use to be "sex buddys" a couple of years ago and I know she would say no. Only I feel totally awful that the girl I really love can't totally satisfy my needs. I can't lose her as I'd be totally lost without her. We just totally get on with each other and apart from the sex issues, everything is perfect. HELP!!!!