Hello everyone... This is my firsat post here... I am often not able to cum from intercourse alone. I have no problems while jerking off or if my wife uses her hands however. . Anyway, I found that fantasying about giving my wife head right after I cum inside her and tasting my own cum helps me to orgasm during intercourse. I guess I get turned on by moderate female domination thoughts. The thought of her pushing my head down to lick her after I cum pushes my right to climax. Here's the predictable part of my post.... As soon as I cum inside her, I completely loose interest in doing it. What was a huge turn on while having intercourse, actually becomes "kind of gross" to me right after I cum. By the way... I know I should just talk to my wife about it but she is way to uncomfortable to talk about that stuff. She can get pretty wild and open during the act, but otherwise she not open to talking about stuff like that :-( Here's where I could use some thoughts.... I am specifically posting in the general area and not in the fetish/fantasies forum because I am specifically looking for thoughts from woman (and some men) that are not generally interested in fetish/fantasies. Thanks again! 1. Ladies.... Would having your boyfriend or husband give you head right after he cums inside you turn you on or off? Keep in mind, I'm talking about him licking you out with his own cum inside you, not just the act of generally receiving head? 2. Ladies... Would you also find it a turn on or off if your boyfriend or husband came on your body (chest, neck, face, etc...) and then licked it off ? 2. Men... Anyone else had these thoughts or experiences? Thanks so much!