I like good girls and I'm have a hard time hitting on random girls (especially at bars) since I don't like 1 nighters. I should mention I'm new to the area and don't know anybody. I like girls who make me wait, at least until I know her full name, where she grew up and possibly after a few dates. Not just what her favorite drink is. I'm looking for suggestions on how to let a girl know I don't want to take her home but I am interested in her. So far I have gotten the "your a prude" attitude. Im used to the picking up a girl at a party or a bar but don't like that scene anymore. Maybe insight on good hot spots to meet girls. Ps, i dont have a dog lol. Please help. Thanks.