[Ask a Girl] help me

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  1. xenomorph

    xenomorph New Member

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    what do i do if my boy has no sex drive
    i find myself touching myself on a 10 to 1 scale
    and the only time he ever touches me i feel is because i complain about it enough he just does it to shut me up
     
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    i think u need a better boy bc i think any other guy would love to touch their girl!! hit me up!!
     
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    I think you deserve a more thoughtful answer that that, xenomorph, and one in English instead of text-speak. But it's hard for us to come up with any good ideas or advice without more to go on.

    How long have you been together? Did this suddenly come on or was it gradual? Has he been under more than usual stress at work lately? How about alcohol and/or drugs; has he been overdoing it lately?

    Anything you can give us will help. We want everybody to have good sex.:dgrin
     
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    Get a better boy :p

    And who still uses "Hit me up"...

    >_< *is frustrated as shit over the lack of etiquette men use nowadays*
     
  5. Hot Wheels

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    I agree with Mittimer......on all points:)

    I'd like to know how old you and your guy are xenomorph....?

    Hit me up??.....:ugh
    And don't get me started on text speak.....shits me:mad
     
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    What she said!

    Actually, now that I think about it a few minutes later, is it really another boy that the OP needs, or should she be looking for a man?
     
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    Boy..man...it's kinda hard to tell the difference anymore :p
     
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    Yeah....thats why I asked their ages..... since a lot of women refer to their guys as "my boy" these days.......:)



    Oh' and fothermucker......love the new avatar man:lol
     
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    Im 25 he's 30 we've been dating for a few years. Im not looking for another spouse just some advice
    Im just not sure what to do
     
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    sex "just isn't a priority"
     
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    Has it always been this way or has it changed, if changed try to figure what the change was and fix it. Also, try doing things that are romantic or dress seductively for him. If you have put on a lot of weight, that can change his sex drive to you. There are a lot of factors. When he does it to shut you up, is the sex good? We need more info to give you a good answer.
     
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    weight gain is not a factor
    and Im told the sex is good (I think the sex is good )
    Im not sure if my partner is just bored or what