Help me pls

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  1. kopeli

    kopeli New Member

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    Well i'm a 18 guy, and i'm going prety fast with my GF, so sex is gona come rly soon as i see it., the problem is that i'm a Virgin, but she is not as far as i know,
    I would like to know if its gona hurt Me at my first time ?
    Also i'm uncircumsized, does that makes any diference ? or make it more painfull or anything ? i would rly like to know.

    Thnx .
     
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    I'm also uncircumsized, and if anything, it makes it less sensitive. Just don't worry and be honest with your partner - if it's hurting you, tell her. Honesty is everything with intimacy.
     
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    I've never heard of sex hurting a guy. As far as being uncut goes, the foreskin should retract with an erection, but, if not, you may have to pull it back manually. If there is any pain you'll want to speak with your doctor.

    Have fun!
     
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    Yeah, just calm down, You will be fine. It shouldn't hurt, it should feel good. of course.
     
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    I can understand being nervous but no, it won't hurt. And, being a virgin at 18 isn't a "problem". Just take it slow and let her know it's your first time. If she cares about you it shouldn't matter to her.

    About being uncircumcised, most men on this planet aren't either so you're in the majority
     
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    If you worry that it may hurt first time, it probably will!

    You should have no need to worry about that.

    As AndrewD said, take it slow. Relax and have plenty of foreplay Don't be shy about introducing some extra lubrication to help you both.

    And don't feel rushed into doing it if it isn't quite yet the time.

    Being uncut shouldn't make any difference. If anything I'd say you might me more sensitive than a man that has been circumsised.

    You might even find that pain is the least of your worries. Pure physical pleasure might have you coming quicker than you might expect.

    But that is normal and not a problem.
     
  7. kopeli

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    Thnx for the help ppl, i fell much better now, quess i was just to much scared of something new,
    thnx for the fast reply.
     
  8. AndrewD

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    I think the general consensus on this .D. is that circumcision makes the head of the penis less sensitive (especially later in life). Therefor, an uncircumcised penis is more sensitive, not less.
     
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    Kopeli I'm not of the right gender but I don't see how the first time or ever will hurt a guy.As Andrew D. and Cobia advise just relax, you are not the first virgin. Essential to discuss this with the GF though as from my experience you will possibly cum before you get fully in. If she knows what to expect she won't be dissapointed. Good luck, keep us posted.
     
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    Listen to what Blusey said, If your forskin does not retract
    fully over the ridge then you will need to keep pulling it back until it does
    And that may hurt for awhile. But you will enjoy the sex much better
    when it's fully retracted.

    Hiker
     
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    why don't you try masturbating and see how that goes