Help me out here...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by melicious, Dec 19, 2006.

  1. melicious

    melicious The Old Maid
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    :jerry

    Please tell me exactly what this little icon is supposed to mean. See? I was, for some time, part of the lifestyle. Many would say that what I do now still qualifies me. In the lifestyle, this meant that one or more people was creating drama, which ya just aren't supposed to do. Now, when I see that here following one of my responses/posts, I feel like the comic on stage being pelted by rotten veggies. Really. I say what I think. I invite others to do so, at least in response to me..... makes communication easier.
     
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    My usage of that smiley was more directed towards the drama created by Bobster in This thread and Sexual Trex in This thread over accusations of purposely deleted posts. Not anything to do with your responses. Sorry, I didn't mean to offend!

    I'm curious as to what 'lifestyle' you're referring to though. :)
     
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    Lifestyle=swinging

    I'm not offended, hon. I'm just trying to make sure that I fully understand what people are trying to communicate when they use it.
     
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    I guess I never made the connection between that smiley and swinging, and that isn't what I was implying. :) I should have been more direct with my comments, I know how the true meaning of a post can be misunderstood. It's hard to gauge intent behind text, and sometimes even harder behind a smiley.

    So to answer your question, the smiley (That I used at least) was not aimed at you at all, but rather the drama created by other posters. :)
     
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    Mel, I thought that after discussing this last night we were cool. I promise you that I will never, ever use that icon again in response to any post of yours. You have my solemn vow. If you're still pissed, may I suggest that we settle this via a naked jello wrestling match? Hmm?
     
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    I'd only use that icon when people are bitching. However, I've never used it. But if I would use it, that's how I'd use it. Makes sense, right?
     
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    Oh, I'm not pissed at all. I'm good. It was just something I was curious about IN GENERAL. I can pretend to be mad though, if it leads to jello.

    And I don't associate the smiley with the lifestyle, but the lifestyle with the idea that drama is a horrible sign to pin on anyone.
     
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    Naked.Jello.Mel,can I join too??
     
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    :brow OH hell yea!
     
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    Nice.I'll bring the whipped cream ;)
     
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    Mmm...this could be worth watching....
    Only need one more lady for a tag team contest :D
     
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    It's just never enough for you guys, is it? Ya gotta "tweak" everything.... Sheesh.
     
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    And this is why we have Aftermarket parts for cars .... God I love tweaking things... ;)