Help, friend problem--HURRY

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  1. HornyNConfused

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    Im a male and my best friend is a male. We are both 19 years old and have known each other forever. When we were little we used to mess around, i.e, suck each other lick each others ass's, make out and etc. We never had sex. Now, we are older and still hang out. I want to have sex with him but im afraid to say anything. We talk about how good it would feel to share a girl and even put both of our junks in 1 hole. We even talk ab cumming in a girl together. (same hole-always the ass.) Do you think he would do stuff with me now? Please let me know, im always horny and we always talk/text ab sex stuff. I want to have sex with him.


    Do we talk about these things because we really want to have sex together? I mean, we talk about sharing holes, because i think he is thinking about our dicks touching. (i know i am.)
     
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    Do you think your friend feels the same way? Interested in the same way. It seems that perhaps you are both maybe just nervous to let the other know how you really feel? Are you bicurious or would you rather or do you see yourself lean more towards one sex versus the other--or just with this particular friend?
     
  3. Trond

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    Interesting problem. Is your friend the one who talks about girls most of the time? Does he seem to be more interested in girls than you are? It could be that you are both bisexual, but chances are pretty small (true bi people are quite rare).

    Playing semi-sexual games is not that uncommon among kids, so I wouldn't put too much emphasis on what happened when you were that young.
     
  4. nurseharley

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    when you say yall were "little", how young are we talking?

    personally, if i were close to someone and had already done sexual things - despite the age - i would feel comfortable enough to at least mention it to them. just tell him how you're feeling, you're attracted to him and want to make those fantasies yall talked about come true. you'll never know if you don't come out and ask and we certainly can't answer for him
     
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    It sounds to me like you just need to come out and tell him how you feel, and what your desires are. Nothing ever happens if you don't take a chance. You will either learn a valuable lesson, or see your fantasy fulfilled. Either way, there is something positive to look at out of it.:D
     
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    Both 19, so now it looks like some details need to come in the open, or is it risky? Does he seem like there is more than just a same hole type of interest or the idea of both of you having your fun together .... while with a girl? by what you wrote it looks like he would be receptive but proceed slowly and with caution, approach the subject. weigh out pros and cons if you feel like you need to but that's my idea anyway.
     
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    When ever we talk about it, which is all the time, he even says how good it would feel to cum in her at the same time, in the same hole. We even joke around telling each other we want to sell our bodies to each other...crazy i know. When he talks about the things he wants to do with women, its always about the anal. We both love anal porn, dp porn, and especially dp creampies.
     
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    you're talking to him all the time about that yet you can find the nerve to tell him you like him? just tell him you want him to fuck you in the ass when you're talking about all this sexual stuff
     
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    That would be a good idea. now would you go so out in the open and all out? Maybe start easy and if the door seems open then open it wide.
    Touchy subject at first.
     
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    since both of you are comfortable of talking about sex often, it wouldnt hurt to give it a try and ask him? :D
     
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    I dont think i could muster up the courage to ask him. Although, he always jokes around and says things like "butt sex, anal, dp, double anal creampie", etc. I know he would like to share a hole with me but I don't know about sex. We also joke about things and say stuff like, ill blow you for 20 bucks, and the same type of stuff about anything. So confused/horny. ha. helppp
     
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    there is nothing you can do to help the situation besides come out and ask him.

    you're making this a lot harder than it could be.
     
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    Easier said then done :(
     
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    I dont want to ruin our friendship
     
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    How about asking him over to your place to spend the night watching movies or something? Start talking about sex (like you tend to do apparently) and see what comes out of it. Just an idea.
     
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    I don't want to draw a confusion although i am almost doing it:
    Looks like you are both going around the subject, both scared to break it into the open, so you joke and keep safe about it.
    Now the question is, will anyone take the chance ...... looks like worth exploring?
     
  17. survivalclubz

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    It seems to me that you really don't want help. Every suggestion is pretty much the same answer to your question, but you seem to be trying to talk yourself out of talking to him. Just talk to him about it, and see what happens.