Help for Horny Housewives!

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by JuicyB, Apr 7, 2008.

  1. JuicyB

    JuicyB New Member

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    A recent Time Magazine article says that many couples are sexually "mismatched"! And often the women has a way higher sex drive than her hubby, and she ends up feeling frustrated, cheated, and misunderstood! And without professional help often end up divorcing! Maybe the guy wants 2 x a week and she's more like 4 x a week + ! The guy gets defensive feeling like his virility is being attacked. The girl feels she isn't pretty enough! Neither of which are true! And it seems these differences are just inborn! The therapist helps the couple to accept the differences, and make things work out. Do any of you girls understand this type of frustration?
     
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    Uh, yeah... I have a pretty high libido (well maybe really high, like three times a day everyday if I could convince my SO :brow) and my ex-husband definitly does not. He always used to talk about sex sex sex sex... but when it came down to it, I was getting some maybe once a month if I was lucky. :eek I always wondered what I was doing wrong, and why he didn't want to have sex with me. Whenever I tried to talk to him about it he would get defensive. Its one of the reasons we split.
     
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    Well, I wouldn't say that my relationship is quite like that. However, I will say that I do have a higher libido with my husband. But, that's why I masturbate! We probably have sex every other day, so it's not like I'm hurting for sex or anything!
     
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    I'm a woman, not a girl, but I'll answer the question anyways........HELL YEAH!

    My husband isn't into sex as much as I am, so I masturbate a lot with or without the aid of cyber/phone sex. He's happy that I'm happy, so life is good.
     
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    I have a very high libido and could have sex twice a day! I masturbate, but it is entirely different. We like to get it on, but with full-time jobs, a dog, a house and picket fence, and a five year old sometimes the old eyes just need to close. Hubby works at home, and if I was home all day I would be chasing him around to get some afternoon nookie on a daily basis!
     
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    BD, you are such a lucky man:lol:lol How do you keep up with her:eek
     
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    It's a dirty job, but alas...someone has to do it! ;)

    BD
     
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    How do I find a girl like you?

     
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    Why not discuss it during the courtship period? :shrug I certainly don't see any reason to be shy about sex talk once you've got a few dates under your belt.

    Oh, and I've always been the one with the higher libido in my relationships. And, yes, it did a number on my self-esteem in the past. I never knew that libido is more or less dependent on the individual, with gender really having nothing to do with it (though men do peak earlier).
     
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    Every man's nightmare!

     
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