[Ask a Guy] Help for a virgin?

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  1. uss_texas

    uss_texas New Member

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    Ok, so my gf wants to make love with me and she doesent know im a virgin..
    Is there any pain to it? Any good advice would really help guys/girls, pls
     
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    First if your a guy there well be no pain . If her not finding out it's your first time just take it slow and remember It's all about her and that will help to not look like a virgin .
     
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    ok well thank you m8 :)
     
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    Well...first, I agree...do whatever it takes to please her. As a general rule, this is good advice to follow whether you're a virgin or a porn star.
    Second...do not be at all surprised if you cum within the first 30 seconds. One way of mitigating this is to masturbate before you get together with her. If you're all worked up, hot and bothered about it...you'll probably shoot off before you even get inside her. If you're a little desensitized from an earlier wank, you may just last a little longer. It will help you mentally and physically.

    Lastly, she may actually LIKE the fact that you're a virgin. My first time, my girlfriend got so excited that I was a virgin, she made a game of getting me off early. It wasn't about making fun of me, it was about see how quickly she could have that effect on me. To this day it gets her wet just talking about doing that to me...and despite the women I've been with since her, we came back together and now she's my wife and she will occasionally work her magic and get me to cum with a word, a glance and a teasing stroke.
     
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    well i dont know if she would really be happy to know..
    il try to get done before we start, hope it works.
    il tell her after the whole thing is over