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  1. NHKitten

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    I'm new (obviously) and looking for a place to talk about sex. I'm 35, bisexual, but in a monogamous marriage to a man. I've recently been reawakened to sex and now I cannot stop wanting it, all day, every day! My husband tries to keep up but he also has to work so he requires sleep and also time away from home to do his job. Even when I sleep all I dream about is sex. Most of my friends are more reserved so it's not like I can chat them up about my desires or my triumphs either! When I was younger (late teens, early 20s) any person would do to get me off. Now that I'm in a committed relationship I do not have that option but I have been completely insatiable! For a long time I was on medications for health related issues that dulled my sex drive but I no longer need the meds for the other issues so my drive has exploded again (and again, and again, lol). Even as I sit here I will stroke across my nipples idly just for the thrill. I do very much love sex but I also wish I could turn my drive off when I'm not using it, lol.
     
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    Welcome to SF.

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    Thanks Cappy! It is great to have a place to talk openly!
     
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    Not on meds either..feel your pain high sex drive ..not always having an outlet for it...this place might help you in your solo endeavors when hubby isn't available ...
     
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    It is rather frustrating, psychologically and physically, lol. Tonight after my physical desire just would not die it turned into a messy ball of other emotions which is even worse, lol. It's like if I'm not constantly cumming I'm falling apart and crying. I chalk some of it up to being on my period at the moment, and I really, really hope that it will calm down once the period passes!
     
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    Oh I hear you!! Same here..don't cry as much as I get down..like am I ever going to find someone who wants sex as much as I do ?? And how do I let a potential suitor know I crave sex constantly without them looking at me like the beast with two heads?? I lost more than one because they thought I was too abnormal to want sex that much??
     
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    My husband doesn't mind my high libido but he just isn't getting any younger, lol. I think it is a cruel divine joke that men peak at 18 and women in their 30s! I also hate how society at large has the view that a man who craves sex is normal and a woman who does is depraved, lol. Long for the day when female sexuality is just as open and acceptable as men's!
     
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    greetings ......kitten o_O
     
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    Also of note, I have a wireless keyboard and it is a huge PITA! It likes to sometimes leave out letters, whole words, make a letter typed once into 15 of them, or randomly insert letters, numbers and symbols into places. I will probably be editing a lot of posts since I often reply without fully proofing first, lol.
     
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    Welcome NHKitten, hope you like it here & find it relieving, to "blow off some steam":D
     
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    Well welcome to the forum!
     
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    Welcome NHKitten. :)
     
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    Thank you all of you :) It's nice to feel so welcome! I'm definitely loving it so far!
     
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    Leave society's expectations and moral standards at the door - those are totally unneeded (and lots of times unwanted) here! :D

    This is a place for you to be you - so cum on in and join us.
     
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    Welcome NHKitten I'm sure you will, in fact have, found like minded people who want to express their needs, wants and desires.
    Just be as 'open' as you want and let it all 'flow' free.

    What the hells this about men 'peaking' at 18? :rolleyes:
     
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    Hi NHKitten,
    I joined only yesterday, and it has treated me well so far! so i think you can get something good out of this. Actually, your situation seems similar to mine...except with the genders reversed. Also, 18 you say? I donĀ“t know about that! :).

    Anyway, have fun and enjoy yourself!
     
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    You sound like me. Hope you find this place to give you more of an outlet than you already have. Welcome.
     
  19. oldkid

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    Welcome Kitten... Maybe in NH horny women are looked down on, but in many spheres you're welcomed openly. Let it all hang out here.
     
  20. CaramelLady

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    Welcome to SF!!! Happy to have you here!