I have been reading & lurking for several months now, just finally got up the nerve to join. I would be part of the socially slow crowd!! Hubby has no idea I am browing although he would love it. Just looking for information and ways to improve our relationship. Both on 2nd time around, both with history that makes things difficult. So things are rocky at times and one of us needs to figure things out, so this is the step I am taking. I am sure if I get up enough nerve to lead, he will definately follow! Any help down the road is appreciated. I have read this long enough to know I just need to sit him down and talk, but haven't 1) gotten that far 2) worked up the nerve or 3) gotten the desperate yet. I am sure it will happen in the future, but not sure when. Need to figure things out for myself first. Thanks in advance for the information!!