Hi, I am a 48 year old male living in Washington in the process of getting a divorce which I asked for. My wife and I couldn't get along and had some major philosophical differences and she tried to change me into her image of the ideal man. I simply couldn't take it anymore and decided to pursue a divorce. It's funny how life is sometimes and you just never know what is going to happen next. One night while on facebook something prompted me to see if I could find a woman who was my girlfriend 28 years ago. I had looked for her before but had no luck but this time I found her. I requested we be "friends" and she accepted. We began to instant message and all I wanted to do was to tell her that I never got over her and that I always had feelings for her. I thought I would speak my peace and that nothing would ever really come from it. As luck would turn out, she too was also in the process of leaving her husband and getting divorced and admitted that over the years she thought about me too. We continued our daily chats until one day she finally asked, "is it possible?" "Could we get back together?" I told her that it could be possible but that it wouldn't be easy because of the 1250 mile difference in where we live but if we were willing to put in the effort it could be done. One day she suggested we meet to see if the sparks were really still there between us. We agreed to meet at a casino resort for the weekend. We met and sure enough we left feeling that the sparks were still there and that we should continue to move forward with our reunion. We are still together and now have plans for her to eventually join me here where I live. We have a few obstacles to overcome but think she can join me later this year. Our relationship is amazing. We share the same views and have so much in common and we have a fun, loving, and intimate relationship. We both came out of sexually boring and unadventurous relationships and are committed to keeping our relationship sexually adventurous and fun. Reuniting with her has been nothing short of amazing and I never thought I would have her back in my life. Because we're more mature it has given us a greater appreciation for what we have and what we lost. I enjoy this website and would love to hear your thoughts.