Been with me man for a few years now and lately - 9 - 12 mths or so - he really dont wanna give me any sex. I no idea why this is and i feel really hurt when he says no as it makes me feel like i dont do it for him anymore and when i ask him this he says he dunno what is wrong and that it is him. i just think that it is unusual for the male to say no to sex and it doesnt seem to worry him at all about going without. it is really starting to get to me and i really love him lots and they wonder why people go elsewhere to have our needs fulfilled!!