I ask my boyfriend often to give me oral, but he always refuses too. Love him with all my heart, but it's something he hardly does. On some nights I go crazy cause I just want to be pleased so much. Last night I started to cry cause every guy I've been with all don't like it and I end up finding out when I'm in love with them. I love this guy, sex is great but I want oral as well. It's not like I'm dirty cause I use a special vaginal wash that takes away oder and such. I'm just stuck now and frustrated cause I'm tired of being with guys who always don't like it but than ask me to do anal which I believe is unfair. I refused to do anal with him, cause I'm not getting oral... but he still continues to ask. Please help.