Hi I have a question and especially for you boys/men I hangged out with this guy when I went abroad for studying.. I already met him once on hollidays..first we were friends but somehow we attracted each other.. The first time we were together in bed I told him that I'm a virgin and want to wait for the right person and the right time and that I'm just not ready now.. he told me to tell him whenever I will be. so we hangged out again, did some petting and I also get me a pill.. Then I told me that I'm ready and that I want him to be my first, but then he said that he is flattered but he thinks that we should wait.. and later he told me that that he really likes me and have deep feeling for me but that he wants us to be on the same feeling level and that he is not ready to sleep with me.. I was hurt, because I thought he wants me too. Can you help me to understand that?