Recently my husband and I have had to address our issues. We've been married now for 2 years but have been together for 6 years. My husband is currently in the US Military. In the begining of our relationship out sex life was kinky and exciting, as it should be, but since he joined our sex life has suffered. He was gone for 2 years and we only saw each other a combined 3 months out of the 2 years he was gone. Our sex life was pretty non-existant. He was distant and cold when he came home. He wasnt intrested in sex or me. He doesnt touch me, doesnt caress me, he doesnt make love to me. I've tried to talkt to him about it and he says he doesnt know whats keeping him from doing those things and that he's attracted to me. He recently told me that he doesnt have control over his penis functions...?!?! I dont know what to think. I know he's having problems getting it up as well. I've tried to give him head and he sometimes cant get hard from that. I've tried dressing up for him and that works off and on. I dont know what to do. He doesnt know what turns him on and I cant even start to try and guess. He acts like he's totally turned off by the thought of having sex. When we do its short and unsatisfying or boring. I've told hime to tell me what he wants when he wants it and I've told him at this point I would do anything to turn him on. But it seems like nothing works. I'm at a loss. please help!!!