I have been in a relationship with someone that I love more than anything for 6 months now. Before I fell in love with her I found her extremely attractive and sexy, and still do to this day. We began our relationship slowly and didn't rush things, and due legal purposes we ended up becoming long distance 4 months ago. For now anyway. Before this happened we had sex for the first time, I lost my virginity to her. I obviously didn't last long. My problems are when we see each other (usually a full week out of each month) I either end up not lasting long at all (minutes) or I end up not finishing at all and start to lose my erection after 20 minutes or so. This has obviously created some issues between us, but we love each other and I'm seeking advice and help to resolve this. I'm 23 Shes 25 Just looking to see if anyone has advice. I'm thinking maybe I should see a doc. I just don't feel these issues together are normal. Thank you.