Lately, I've noticed that I've been having some trouble getting and staying wet. I know, we could use lube, but I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to naturally stay wet? Also, my boyfriend is constantly wanting sex. A lot of times he almost forces me into it, but not abusively, just by doing things without my permission, or not listening when I say no about small things, like him going down on me. Lately, I'm just not in the mood for sex. I'd rather just cuddle and be romantic and cute, but whenever we do cuddle, he always wants more. I end up just letting him do what he wants so it gets out of his system, but tonight, he was fingering me, and I wasn't wet at all, so it hurt. I asked him to stop, and he eventually did. He noticed something was wrong, and I explained to him how I was feeling, how I feel like he doesn't listen when I say no. He didn't say anything. I often tell him I'm just not in the mood, and he does things anyway. Is this a problem with me and my sex drive? Or is he just wanting sex too much? The last time we had sex was last Saturday, so it's almost been a week. Is it weird that I'm not turned on by him fingering/going down on me very much?