I've never actually had a full blown orgasm from getting oral sex which baffles me because the sensations I get throughout my body during it are pretty fucking sensational. My current SO is the only partner I've been with that's been fantastic at it. (On a side note - I've been with women and they've been great also but SO is better. They were better than any other male I've been with.) I can get to the bit where the build up starts and I'm getting little electric shock like feelings rushing through my body but it stays there. No amount of me forcing his face into my pussy or insisting on him sucking/licking harder or trying to induce an orgasm by simulating what my body does before and during one gets me past that point. I know I should feel lucky that I even get that enjoyment out of it but I come out of it frustrated because I haven't reached that point and I know how amazing I feel after an orgasm. So... I just feel unfinished? Anyone ever had this and found a way to overcome it? I'd really rather not bring toys into it. We have toys and use them but truely, with the sensations I get from him giving me oral sex, I know that that should get me there. Maybe I have oral sex hang ups I never knew I had?