Ok well to start off i would like to say hi to everyone. Ok well im a Virgin at 18. Its not something that i really hide if asked but im not a "proud" virgin either. I seem to have confidence issues with meeting women/girls however you want to say it. I i honestly believe it might be because i am a virgin and feel that girls don't want me. to some existent. I have not been "saving" myself for anyone or anything like that but kind of like the movie the 40 year old virgin every time i get close something happens and then it doesn't happen. In high school i was pretty popular and played sports as well as very well known. But i have always had the issues with girls. I tend to shy away from them. And i tell myself to suck it up and not be a pussy but i just cannot get over this issue. I haven't always been like this but sometime around 7th grade i would say is when it changed im not a shy person in the least not afraid to make a fool of myself or be embarrassed. I have always been told by the opposite sex that i am "hot","cute", "funny" and so on so why do i have such issues. I just cannot figure out my problem i try to change myself and force myself to do stuff as much as possible but even when i do get a chance with a girl i am pretty good at screwing stuff up. I mean no girls believe that i am a virgin even when i tell them. But i almost feel bad telling them because it to me is putting in the "whats wrong with him" question. My type of girl is i guess the typical girl im not quite sure how to describe them. But i guess usually they are what you would see in school or on TV and the "popular" girl. As far as looks. And i have a very high standard in some ways because i WONT settle for less i have ALWAYS refused to. It might be a weakness but i just cannot get over that. In some ways its shallow i suppose even though its not all looks. The thing is that i KNOW i am capable of getting that type of girl. Except i don't have the balls to walk up and talk to them. APOLOGY lol sorry i know what i said was mostly rambling but im not quite sure how to explain it. so i sort of started rambling. Anyways im just asking for advice on whatever you may be able to give. Feel free to ask any specifics if it will help ill gladly answer Thanks, Pride Also if this is the wrong place to post this please move to correct it.