I am curious to those who have children or planning to how it has affected your sex life. There are many variables such as being married ,divorced , how many children , what age yadda yadda but I am curious to how it has affected your sex life. Did it change? How? Do you think of it differently and how do you deal? What's your outlook for the future? For me our sex life has changed in how often we have sex and our " wild side " has gone away by the most part. We still have sex just not as much and usually it's a quickie due to many things. And yes sometimes it's just fantastic. We don't let it bother us really because we are very busy but when we have extended alone time it comes back. For me it's just being physically tired and mentally not in that frame of mind but we have talked and understand that it's not that we are bored of eachother or don't think eachother are sexy and we look towards future and know we will get our groove back , not worried about it. I am curious to everyone else's stories and situations and how it works with you.