Have your ever paid / hired an Escort?

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Dave Myers, Nov 17, 2006.

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Have you ever hired an escort? (you too ladies!)

  1. Yes

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  2. No

    68.6%
  3. Maybe I will.

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  4. Cannot remember details, was too wasted.

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  1. Dave Myers

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    I am asking everyone if the have ever hired an escort / call-girl (you too ladies!) ? Please tell me your experiences, successes or disaster stories alike. :dgrin
     
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    Yes in every port of call I hit while in the Navy. Keep in mind the AIDS thing wasnt around then, not sure I would do it again now even if I were single and still crazy. Guess I'm kinda showing my age here....LOL
     
  3. Bluesy

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    I'm just curious as to why a guy would hire an escort...? I'd think you could walk into any bar or nightclub and find a willing lady (free of charge).
     
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    At ease Sailor.

    Let me guess, mostly Thailand or in that gereral area, maybe Vietnam too ... looks like you been around a "long long time". I have heard stories about sailors having some crazy unbelievable stuff ...
     
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    Why you ask?

    Some men just don't want to play all the headgames that come along with dating, the time, energy, etc. . . .. and the emotional attachment that sometimes creeps up on you after a nice blowjob.
     
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    I can understand that. I would venture to say that most of the ladies you pick up at a bar, etc., just want a good fuck. Maybe you could save a few bucks ;)
     
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    Why

    Bluesy, when we pulled into port all we wanted was a cold beer and a hot woman. We would go to the bars and the girls that are there is what you get. Most of the bars in the Philippines and Thailand around ports are set up for this and we had a blast. Yes my feelings have changed over the years as I've aged and I do wish things were different for those young ladies but it was and is their choice just as it was mine to sample their delights. Now married with 2 grown children its not something I would do, its just a part of my life that I will not deny or be ashamed of doing the things I did in those days. Even though wild and able to have anything you wanted over there the kinkiest thing was the party my fireroom buddies and I had with their wives out in San Diego. Just a wild night and no regrets for any of it.
    Yes, Ive been around the world 4 times and have had fun in most of the places I've visited. Never made it to the Nam though. I have a friend who is planning a trip there in the spring though for fun and games:dgrin.
    :bow All bow to the ladies for they are what we desire most:brow
     
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    Ya, I guess so.

    Another reason, most men simply dread rejection and are simply petrified of it. (Me, I could not care any less), but most men still like to know exactly what they are getting with no mindfuck broad trying to control them.
     
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    Thanks for your feedback.

    Your story is very common, most of the ex (and) current military people I speak to tell of similar tales. I think those experiences served you all well.
     
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    I can see the appeal in that...No chance of rejection, simple and straightforward, no complications.
     
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    I can see the appeal in that ...

    Exactly. Hey, how many posts do I need before I can upload my avatar?
     
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    I cant agree with Dave, we were just very horny after being at sea for so long and any female would of done the trick for me. Its not that I was looking for something without attatchment or complications, it just simply that is what was there or as my wife once said about prision inmates being gay," Their not gay there just using the nearest recepticle." Believe me there is nothing better feeling than a warm sexy lady after being at sea a couple of hundred days.
     
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    Ive never paid for sex or a call girl....never will....
     
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    Let me agree and clarify...

    Your individual circumstances (military service = overseas for months on end) are much more unique than the average guy calling an escort locally. My intention when starting this whole discussion was to focus on the avergage Joe, local dudes like me that got some extra cash, don't like playing the dating game and being manipulated by women for sex. ... but I do acknowledge your prespective is valid still.
     
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    Please indicate your reply in my poll.

    Thanks dude. Click on ass.
     
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    The only thing that I paid for sex was my happiness. 20 years.
     
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    Please explain?

    The only thing that I paid for sex was my happiness. 20 years ???
    What you talkn na bout Willis?
     
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    No, never hired anyone to do anything sexual to me or for me! ;)
    All the guys & girls I know give it up for free!! :cheer
    Unless, you count dinner as payment; but hey, we all gotta eat!! :lol
    ~Bella
     
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    We all pay.

    Trust me, everyone pays, even if ain't plain old cash.
    ;)
     
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    OOPPSS Sorry Dave, I do see the difference in circumstance and had no intention of causing a tangent. Sorry.......