Hi I am new here. I am a 39 y/o SWM. I don't feel old, and actually I feel like I am still in my 20s mentally, but I've noticed over the last couple years, my sex drive had been declining. I never had a problem performing once I started, but my libido was real low. I assumed part of it was insecurity cuz like a lot of people I've put on extra pounds over the years, which I am currently working on. I recently was diagnosed with low Testosterone, and started taking androgel, a testosterone replacement medication. Now I am 6 weeks into it, and wow did it make a difference! Not only is my sex drive up like a 1000%, feel better about myself than I have in years, and I am starting to get some muscle tone back and shed some pounds, but I can't stop thinking about sex! I just get erections seeing women walking by, like I did when I was a teen! I have a female friend and we occasionally have sex (we have a mutual NSA thing...she's the only sex partner I've had in 4 years, she has a couple guys on the side. I don't ask questions no one is jealous or getting hurt here). I used to just want sex like a couple times a month and would rarely masturbate. Now,I masturbate at least twice a day (once in the morning, once at night), and my female friend and I have sex every time we hang out (weekends), and it still doesn't feel like enough! It feels great, but also feels a little frustrating sometimes because I want more sex, and with more partners, but I am no mack daddy and I am still trying to get back into shape so I look better and feel better about myself! So I was wondering if anyone here has been or is currently on meds that increased your sex drive, and how did you handle it?