[Ask a Guy] Have you paid for sex?

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  1. travis beck

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    I'm married, but my wife is a prude. I travel extensively on business and yes, I have paid for sex before.

    Have you?
     
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    Not in cash but in other ways.

    There have been times when I've been very near to doing.
     
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    I think most guys have. Ever paid for a rub and tug massage? That counts!
     
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    Most guys don't have to pay for sex.

    Have you ever talked to your wife about sex?
     
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    Yes. However, I don't get it nearly as often as I would like. I do travel frequently for business and the opportunity for a rub and tug or BJ are quite common. I just wanted to see how many other guys were in a similar situation.
     
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    I don't get sex as often as I like and I still have not gone outside my marriage although he says he doesn't care. Not judging just saying. Lots of people just assume their partner wouldn't like other things and don't even talk to them. Just curious if you had or not.
     
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    I have, but it always ends in a fight.
     
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    I have paid for sex. I have always been a daytime person rather than a late night, nightclub person, and if there wasn't any action at my normal pick up place then I paid for sex at a legal brothel. I enjoyed it because I got a chance to relax and be pampered and spoiled. The other thing that surprised me was the sex I got from the mostly young women, woment the same age as me, was better when I paid for it than if it was free. And almost certainly it was better than the sex they shared with their boyfriends. Being legal there were and are a lot of brothels and escorts, and the better the service they gave the more they earned. Some of the brothels were really nice and tastefully decorated, bordering on luxurious.

    I did see a documentary on the legal sex industry in Australia, and about half of the clients are married men. So it's not uncommon for married men to pay for sex, or pay for better sex than what they get at home.
     
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    I've never been to a legal brothel. Mostly, I've just had "massages" where I was able to pay for extras. I have picked up women in bars before for a BJ, but no money changed hands and they thought they were going to get something out of it. hehe I love horny MILFs at bars. They are so easy!
     
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    I have not.
     
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    Never paid for sex; but only because (for me) it would feel too "desperate" if paying for sexual companionship was the way I obtained it.
     
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    At 4.45 of a sleepless night and being tired cynical - all men pay for sex, despite what AGFUNK says.
    They pay for the clothes to look presentable/attractive to get a date; they pay on a date (s); they pay for a few drink in a bar; they pay for the credit card bills; they pay physically; they pay emotionally; they pay!
    Sex 'on demand', not seasonal like other animals, is evolution's way of making the male want to stay and therefore to pay.

    Am I being truly cynical or just joking :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:.?????????
     
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    Only way I have ever paid for sexy was an exchange for service. I do a good job putting things together I get rewarded with sex lol
     
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    I am not a guy, but I would like to go on record that I have never had to pay for sex.

    What's the going rate for a male escort anyway?? Lol
     
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    I'll only charge you for travel expenses - everything else will be my pleasure to provide. ;)
     
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    Do you want the going rate or the cumming rate?
     
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    yes I have paid for sex.
     
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    In Australia about $200 an hour. I have worked with prostitutes in the past designing their websites, it's a business, and most of the sex is male client (or punter) and female working lady (to give the term they prefer to use). One of the working ladies was bisexual so she did sessions with women and with couples as well as with men. She liked having sex with women, she told me with a big, big, naughty smile.

    As I mentioned when I was younger I sometimes paid for sex, and like jonjo said I could have paid just as much for a one-night stand with no certainty of success. When I was horny and not in a relationship at that time, it was payment for guaranteed real sex. It's quite fine as long as you keep in perspective that it's nothing more than it is.
     
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    Maybe this is part of the problem in your other thread. Paying for "extras" during a "massage" and "picking up a milf for a bj" is CHEATING, whether you think it to be or not. Women pick up on this sort of thing. Did you ever stop to think that she is aware you play on the road and therefore is not super anxious for your dick, not knowing where it's been lately? If you think she doesn't have a clue, you are probably just kidding yourself.

    To answer your original question, I have never directly paid for sex and never will.

    xx