Have you ever had a soft mfm threeway with you husband? I am going to have my first mfm threesome with my wife but she doesnt want to really go all the way and rather just have him watch us. Does being watched lead up to a full blown threesome or even close? She was in another years before we met and had a bad experience, she banged both guys and sucked them both and got nothing in return. Neither guy played with her tits, or anything. She was used by the guy she really liked. She is doing this one for me for my birthday (50th) and weve been together with only each other for 20 years and this was my idea. So would it be better to just keep it mild or should I exspect once she gets horney she will loosen up and lets us do her?