Have you ever used sex to get what you want if so how and what for?

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  1. ginger

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    Have you ever used sex to get what you want if so how and what for?
     
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    Doesn't every woman use sex to make her man do things he doesn't want to do?

    I can get my boyfriend excited to paint some doors quite easily!
     
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    He must have quite a strange 'appendage'.
    Doesn't the paint remover sting afterwards? :eek:

    But you are right about a woman using her wiles to get what she wants, whether it is things done or extracting his credit card - there speaks the voice of experience.
     
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    Nope never have.
     
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    I'll hold off on doing the honey do list just so she will offer a blowie or sex if I do them :)
     
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    Nope, it would probably have the opposite effect lol
     
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    Nope
     
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    I am not commenting as knowing she will be reading this one day ;)
     
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    I would not say I used sex to get him exactly but I used sex with my husband to get him and marry him! lol Not in a bad way like I trapped him but it certainly was part of the offer I was making.
     
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    Yes....mostly to get even more sex. That might sound strange, but I am somewhat of an orgasmaholic, so I use my feminine power to get him to give me more orgasms than he might otherwise give. He's not selfish or low in sex drive, but we would probably do it a little less often if I didn't do my thing as much as I do. So far he hasn't hidden from me or made plans to get out of it, so it's all good!

    My mom said that men get grumpy if they don't get it enough so if they start getting edgy or mean or easily angered then you're overdue for a romp, especially if you want your man to be nice to you.

    Ginger....you did not yet answer your own question.
     
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    ^ ohh Sandwich :0

    "Have you ever used sex to get what you want...." Frankly NO… lol us men (some fortunately are) are not lucky enough to be in such a powerful position to be able to use such a tool and therefore must agree with Wetness above...

    Mr Sandwich is indeed a lucky man..x
     
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    A while back I decided I needed a few new things for my hobby that I am passionate about. An argument ensued and I decided I was going to with hold sex until I got my way and bought what I wanted. I held out for about 15 minutes, when she came out of the shower naked and offered it to me. I decided what the heck and gave in. I thought I'd punished her long enough. I really didn't need what I was wanting to buy anyway so I gave her the money I had been squirreling away to get something she wanted. LOL :)
     
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    respect 15 mins must have been a long 15 lol ;)
     
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    I have used it a couple times...I was young and I still can't believe I was that dumb
     
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