[Ask a Guy] Have you ever turned down a bj?

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  1. HotForHoney

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    I don't know what to do... Been rejected 3 times.


    Guys - have you ever turned down a blow job?

    Ladies - ever been told they didn't want one?
     
  2. HazHardHat

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    First off, their loss HFH. Secondly, I have turned down one BJ but the gal was waayyyyyy too drunk, way too drunk, I kind of feared for my cock's safety LOL What are the reasons you've been given in regards to turning the offer down? Just curious.
     
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    No, never happened, not gonna happen I don't think. ;)
     
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    There was no alcohol was involved, no real reason given.
     
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    I haven't myself, but unfortunately quang chang wang has through lack of performance or too much teeth action going on. :DIf the girl isnt into it I find a BJ boring myself. Fortunately though most girls I ever been with were in to sucking cock. Nothing like a great hummer. :) Maybe the guy just isnt in to BJs.
     
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  6. Farmboyil_il74

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    I have but Hfh I'll let you give me one and I'll tell you what I think after
     
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    .......no! Did he want sex?
     
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    Ok. So first of all I wouldn't turn you (or xtacy ) down. But there are many more considerations. I think that you won't find your answer here at SF.

    My suggestion is don't ask. Better to ask for forgiveness than permission. He may try to stop you but you have a better chance if you you are kissing and you fondle his cock, then kiss his chest, then his stomach and then his cock. There are lots of ways to ease into oral. He may still resist but that is because he has other things going on.
     
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    I don't get many offers LOL and will not refuse except from a male. xoxoxo :)
     
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    Why did you refuse?
     
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    Could be he's just not into them. I know that sounds stupid, but it could be.
     
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    I was not wanting a bj I wanted the pussy more
     
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  13. Farmboyil_il74

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    I have had a girl stop some girls cannt do a good bj
     
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    And another thought. Someone who isn't confident about ejaculatory control may hesitate to say yes.
     
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    ok just thinking he may have a problem down there (cut ,sore, etc)

    however not wanting you to loose them skills I know you have...... call me :)
     
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    I've never turned one down, but if I don't get one its not the end of the world. mainly because I have never gotten off from one.
     
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    If someone were concerned about cumming and had this experience, I bet they would turn it down.
     
  18. SexyFantasyGirl

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    you ask about girls, and my answer is no I have never been told no,
    have you ever done anything with this guy before,had to guess why unless we know the relationship you have with this guy
     
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    Never refused a bj, but I have turned down cuming in her mouth for cumming in other locations!
     
  20. BigTitLover

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    What I mean is I don't get anything from it. I just don't. Dated a gal that loved the fact she could go until she got her fill, she spent over an hour one night trying. It was fun playing around, but that's about it, but she really got off from it. That made me more happy than the actual act.
     
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