Have you Ever Cheated!?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by ImLikasexmachin, Oct 7, 2007.

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Have you Ever Cheated on your GF/BF/Partner/Spouse?

  1. Yes. More than once..

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  2. Never Ever!!!

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  3. Only Once.. and never again!

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  1. ImLikasexmachin

    ImLikasexmachin New Member

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    Have You Ever Cheated on your partner/spouse?
     
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    nope never and would never dream of doing it
     
  3. ImLikasexmachin

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    i have not
     
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    no, I've never cheated on anyone I was in a committed relationship with
     
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    No. I've been with my husband for about 13 years, and I've never wanted to. First off, I don't think anyone could ever please me the way he does, so I don't feel the need to go elsewhere . . . and I LOVE him like crazy. I wouldn't betray his trust or knowingly cause him pain.
     
  6. ImLikasexmachin

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    im surprised... there are some really loyal people on this forum.. i expected the typical 50/50 ratio on this
     
  7. Dreama

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    Hell no. If I wanted to cheat, we wouldn't be together, you know? Lol
     
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    Never have and never will.
     
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    I have done, but i really do regret it and my partner is aware of it happening. But now i have become much more secure with myself and my partner so i don't see it happening again.
     
  10. Nettle

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    I have but the marriage was already over.

    We are now getting divorced, but he still doesn't know I was unfaithful. I know he has been unfaithful too, I'm just not sure if it is only recently or if it happened before.

    I'd like to add he was my first lover and I was faithful to him for 21 years, so I am not a compulsive cheater.
     
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    I would never cheat on my girl, shes awesome :)
     
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    Nope........NEVER!!
     
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    Nah, I don't belive in monogahmy or anything, but if the girl im dateing does (which is pretty much all) then I will play by her rules and not hurt her. Unless she doesn't mind, but then thats arguably not cheating.
     
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    I cheated on my ex because he cheated on me (we weren't happy together/he became violent and abusive) and i didn't know how to get out... so i stayed with him and dated other people behind his back =( Feel bad i did but i was confused back then

    i would never cheat on my finance now... never
     
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    I was dating a guy for a couple of months and I slept with another man on one occasion. The guy I was dating and I weren't even at the "I love you." stage, but I still felt bad in betraying him. I haven't done anything like that since.
     
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    Which is...

    ...another way of saying you have no principles on the subject besides whatever you can get away with. Right?
     
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    I was a hard drinker from when I was young until I was 35. I did a lot of things then that were and are against my moral values. I have never cheated in the last 33 years.
     
  18. Bluesy

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    Doesn't it depend on how you define "cheating"? Some people consider cybersex "cheating". Personally, I think that any activity of a sexual nature (even if you aren't physically touching the other person) is off-limits unless you have your partner's express permission.

    My vote was "only once and never again".
     
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    I've cheated many times on many partners in the past but I have finally found someone that I will not cheat on (but according to Bluesy's view I already have). :(
     
  20. ImLikasexmachin

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    does anyone TRY to cheat? or does it just come your way and you have a hard time avoiding it?